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Hi there! Welcome to Spouse Dates!

What is Spouse Dates about?

Spouse Dates is here to help you to become a better spouse and build better marriage – one date at a time. 

The idea that dating is only a “pre-marriage” thing is wrong. Dating your spouse should never stop.

Also, we should never stop getting better at dating.

So often as couples we don’t just stop getting better at dating, we stop dating altogether.

Why?  

Life gets busy.  Schedules fill up.  Bills pile up.  Kids come along and need attention.  Time, money and energy are limited.  Priorities shift and dating takes a back seat or gets pushed out of the picture totally! 

But dating should not be in the back seat. Nor should dating be pushed out of the picture! 

Marriage experts and social science agree that married couples who continue to date each other experience:

  • more fun
  • better communication
  • deeper romance
  • stronger commitment
  • lower stress levels

Check out THE BEGINNERS GUIDE TO SPOUSE DATES or click below for some of our more popular articles.

Experts and Influencers on the Importance of Dating

Courtship: The Key to Dating Your Spouse Well

Four Ways to Rebuild Friendship With Your Spouse

Mission Impossible: Dating Your Spouse When You Have Kids

Two Powerful Date Ideas to Help You Get Better Acquainted

Delhi, Dating and Doing New Things

Three Ways to Make Your Dates More Memorable

 

So a little about me…

My name is Steve Pare and I have been married to my gorgeous wife, Chrissy, for over 20 years. We have four kids and currently live in Cleveland Ohio. During my day day job I work as a hospice nurse with Cleveland Clinic. Chrissy is a kindergarten teacher.

I am the creator of Spouse Dates and the author of Build a Better Marriage [ One Date at a Time ].

Our first date was a double date with my sister and her future husband. We went to an upscale Chinese restaurant in Philadelphia called Joy Tsin Lau. You can read more about it here.

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Welcome to Spouse Dates!

Hi. My name is Steve Pare. I created Spouse Dates to share people, ideas and resources with you in order to help you build a better marriage - one date at a time!

Steve and Chrissy Pare

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BUILD A BETTER MARRIAGE [ ONE DATE AT A TIME ]

151 pages of pure inspiration...

What readers are saying…

... practical approach ... for busy couples. ~ Dustin

... takes all of the excuses away... sets the bar high on dating. ~ Ken

... blown away by all the helpful and practical resources... well worth the small price! ~ Beth

... one of the best books on marriage I've read since I've been married, which will soon be 38 years. ~ Anne

Why Date?

  • How to have a happy marriage (even when you’re busy with kids)
  • What is Spouse Dates all about? An Interview with Troy McLaughlin
  • Is Romance Overrated?
  • Four Ways to Rebuild Friendship with Your Spouse
  • 7 Reasons Why Dating Your Spouse After Marriage Matters

Date Ideas

  • Date Your Mate Month: Daily Date Idea #24
  • Three Awesome Dates Under Ten Bucks – #2 is only $3!
  • Date Your Mate Month: Daily Date Idea #9
  • Upsy Daisy, Best Friends and Horse Races 💗 Date & Micro Date Ideas for Next Week (June 5-11)
  • Two Tools to Get Good Conversation Going with Your Spouse

Guest Posts

  • The Power Of Suspense: 10-Year Anniversary Date Yields Unexpected Surprise
  • Simple Tips for a Great Marriage
  • 5 Tips for Great Dates
  • Spouse Dating to Enliven a Marriage
  • Three Awesome Dates Under Ten Bucks – #2 is only $3!

Couple Interviews

  • Greg and Creasia: Grace and Thunder!
  • Archie and Lori: Give Each Other More Room to Make Mistakes
  • EJ and Greg: Prioritize Time Together – Make it Sacred!
  • Manny and Karee: Get a Sitter and Have a Hot Date Night Once a Month!
  • Michael and Kim: Communication is the Key!

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